Be careful of your self-talk.
It's so much easier to be negative than it is to be positive. Most people say they are not great at telling stories, then they proceed to tell you a story in such detail that if the same energy was used on a positive encouraging story they make a positive impact on the world and their own personal life.
Why not monitor what you think and what you say? Become conscious of it.
People just say the weirdest things that they don't really mean or even comprehend the full impact of. Myself included, I've been guilty of that.
If you say things like that it's going to effect your relationships...
What you say is a clue to how you think and if you say negative, hurtful things than you are probably having negative hurtful, unfavorable thoughts towards yourself and the rest of the world.
You are diminishing your own self-worth.
Instead, learn to keep your heart open and love yourself unconditionally!
The universe is on your side waiting for your next move.
Celebrate what's working in your life.
Focus on the positive and on what you can do right now.
Give thanks for what you have and that you're still here.
That alone says that your life still matters. You have something special.
You have GREATNESS within you!
Share your value with the world, with the people around you!
Make it a great one,
PS. Get more goodness into your head, not just your wallett!